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On Dating: Everybody's doing it
[Guest Post by Alexandrea J. Wilson] – Because I grew up in a Christian home–I knew better than to believe the lie that everybody’s doing it. I went to the True Love Waits conferences and even pledged to be faithful to God until it was my time to share that special wedding night with my husband. Even when my friends started to lose their virginity, I stood firm because I knew I made a promise to God to save sex for marriage. My confidence in my ability to execute self-control made me think that I would be able to endure any temptation–on my own. I wouldn’t need to fall at…
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Don't Be Afraid To Date
[Guest Post by Krista Back] – What makes one afraid to date? New relationships are wonderful; they are full of smiles, giggles, flirting, stomach flutters, and interesting conversations. However, even in the midst of embracing the excitement and newness of a dating relationship, in the back of my mind I also find myself apprehensive and worried. “What if this will one will turn out like every other relationships?” “What if he hurts me like the others?” “There is no way this will work.” I always end up dealing with this internal struggle between all the good and fun emotions of a new relationship, and the fear I might have my…
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On Dating: Flirting With Disaster
[Guest Post by Rayni Peavy] – This is my story of flirting with disaster. What’s the Big Deal About Flirting anyway? Before I got married I never dated a lot. But I did flirt like it was going out of style. When you’re single, a little flirting here and there probably isn’t that big a deal but I was a major flirt and I majorly led guys on. I called it “flirt without follow through”. From my teens into my very early 20s I loved getting a guy’s attention by using all the right lines, looks and gestures. Then when they asked for my number I would give it to…
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The Secret To Dating
[Monthly Columnist – Hannah Stovall] – Do you know the secret to dating? The whispering was the hardest part. Hushed treasures. Quiet gold. I’d walk down the hallway of that small-town Texas high school, watching those girls—you know, those girls—toss their perfectly highlighted curls in laughter, and I ached to be in on the joke. I’ll admit. I love a good secret. And as my sweet and honest friend said just a few days ago—as we sat on our couch on a Friday night, sipping hot chocolate and telling jokes (because we’re hilarious and awesome): “Someone didn’t fill us in on the secret.” Seven years later–that’s still the perfect description.…
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On Dating: Should Men Pursue Women First?
[Guest Post by Marc Fisher] – Recently, I heard a panel on dating & relationships that tackled many interesting questions–should men pursue women? It was extra special because my wife Renee was one of the panel speakers. I felt encouraged afterwards because it gave some real challenges to put into practice in my own life–but what stood out the most was a single question. A question asked often in Christian circles, but often merely glanced over, Should men pursue women–first? I think we miss something that can radically alter our relationships if we don’t stop to ponder this question in more depth. We need to ask why does the question…
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To Date Or Not To Date
[Monthly Columnist – Rebekah Snyder] – To Date Or Not To Date – That Is The Question “I wasn’t allowed to date until I was sixteen,” I explained. “And how did that make you feel?” No, this wasn’t a therapy session, though the question may have sounded that way. It was asked by the mother of one of my middle school students whom, I’m assuming, was trying to establish some boundaries for her daughter and wondered how they would play out in her daughter’s mind. No one had ever asked me that question before. I never asked it myself. How did I feel about the no-dating rule. I’m sure it…
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On Dating: You Don't Need A Boyfriend To Make You Happy
[Guest Post by Julie] You don’t need a boyfriend (relationship) to make you happy. Or do you? I never thought I’d still be single at 29 years old. I remember at 17 having my life mapped out–when I’d have a boyfriend, get engaged, married, have children, and inevitably live happily ever after. Needless to say, life hasn’t gone as planned. 25 came and went and here I am four years later navigating through ‘what might have been’ with more fear and uncertainty than I’d care to admit. I’m single with no boyfriend in sight. It’s even harder being single when a majority of the people around me are married. It seems like every day Facebook statuses…
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10 Tips Surviving Singleness
10 Tips :: Surviving Singleness Through The Holiday Season. Before I met my husband, December was the most depressing month of the year for me. That’s why I’ve decided to host this series. If that weren’t enough–I decided to bravely share what surviving singleness really looks like. I’ve never shared these before. They’re pieces of me. Pieces from my journal from the month before I met my husband. Although I was “content” I was more lonely than ever. Here goes nothing! “Having a really hard time waiting. Lord, I’m really struggling. Nobody to hide behind. No crushes. [No] internet crap. Like I am done. No more chasing boys. I can…
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I Love My Body – Unique Beauty
[Guest Post by Melissa Thomas] – When I was 4, I knew I wanted to grow up to be a ballerina. They have such a unique beauty. I used to dance in my parents living room. I would play Tchikovsky’s “The Nutcracker,” and “Swan Lake,” and dream of being on stage with a giant tutu. I took dance lessons and learned how to twirl around, point my toes and stand in second position. When I was 11, I had my first seizure. I was waking up, getting ready to go with my family to breakfast. My dog jumped on my bed, excited to see me and greet me. I got…
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I Love My Face
[Guest Post by Songine’ Clark] – I love my face. Yeah, I said it. I love my brown eyes, I love my big nose, I love my round lips, I love my small ears, and I love my brown skin. There was a time when I definitely could not say those things confidently though. I remember back in high school growing up and going through those lovely body changes. I developed pretty early, so I guess my body decided to just let acne run rampant during my middle and high school years. I tried it all to make the acne disappear, but nothing worked. It did suck going through those…
